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How positivity lowers stress

18 How positivity lowers stress

It´s normal nowadays to spend most of our time focusing on negativity, almost all news are negative, in school and our jobs we pay more attention to the negative than the positive, this is because we are programmed to survive so our brains are more interested on that information so find ways to keep us alive but this create a cycle of negative thoughts and negative self-talk which increases stress in our lives.

All of us have lived some amazing moments full of positivity, have you ever wonder how everything gets better at least for a period of time? When we are in a positive state we attract more positive stuff to our lives, we are enjoying the moment and our mind is completely present.

I think you already know how negative thinking and negative self-talk increases stress. We´ve all been in negative situations and we´ve all lived moments of stress and in those moments our brain starts creating an unlimited chain of negative thoughts with everything that could go wrong and in just a couple of minutes we are more stressed out and anxious thanks to the situation and our negative and pessimistic thoughts made it worst.

Positive thinking doesn´t means that you keep repeating positive affirmations or that you try to ignore any negative situation you are in, what positivity means is that you see and focus on the positive aspects of every situation, even in the worst situations you try to find out a positive outlook.

Our thoughts have an impact on our health so if we want t olive a better life we need to start thinking more positively and see the positive in every situation, some health benefits of living a positive life are:

1.- Lower stress.- When we focus on the positive Outlook we reduce our anxiety and we start thinking on positive results and ways we can solve the issue, we´re focused on what could go right and find ways to make those right results.

2.- Lower anxiety.- When we focus on the positive side web ring our brain to the present moment, we are aware of what´s going on and we look for ways to get the best positive result so our brain stop creating negative results.

3.- Lower depression.- In most cases our brain create negative future results based on past experiences, when we focus on a positive result we stop our brain from taking information from the past and focus on getting the best positive result.

4.- Physical health and well-being.- When we live and focus in the positive we are raising our frequency and vibration which makes us feel more alive and help us make better choices through the day that keep us healthy, we find it easier to eat healthy meals, we have more energy and motivation to exercise.

Positivity is a lifestyle, you need to make positivity part of your life by keeping positive thoughts the entire day and making sure that your self-talk is positive. Being kind with everyone around you is also part of a positive lifestyle, practicing gratitude every day will also keep you in that positive state.

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How trying to please everyone increases stress

17 How trying to please everyone increases stress

I see it every single day, most of us try to please everyone around us as a way to fit in but we´re only hiding ourselves, we´re locking our potential and the key that brings to life our uniqueness.

We are all looking for attention, for approval and to feel loved, to feel cared this is normal but when we really on this too much the consequences can impact our health physically and mentally. Some of us lean too much on the opinions of others and we want desperately everyone around to like us and this is when trying to please everyone becomes a huge problem.

We are all different, we are all unique and when we look for someone else´s approval to fit in our real selves die piece by piece.

Looking for approval and attention from everyone around can come from insecurities and they can take blame for others even when others hurt them. Low confidence, low self-esteem and insecurities are often the trigger for trying to please others, the need of attention, approval and the feeling of belonging becomes their priority without realizing that first you need to love yourself, take care of yourself first

Trying to please everyone every time increases stress and anxiety because we are so worried about fitting in, about what others are going to say about us, we keep thinking on saying and doing the right thing, you are so focused on being someone else, someone who fits in a certain group that you forget to be yourself.

There some things that happen when you please everyone and one of them is that you become easily manipulative, when people notice that they can take advantage of you they will take advantage of you and the reason why you accept, say yes or agree to what they´re asking is because you know they´re going to let you in and be part of a group.

Have you ever noticed how hard it is to always be worried about what to say and what to do so that you can fit in and the others accept you, you try to say what they want to hear for the most part but people sense this, when people find out that you are telling them what they want to hear and you are not being true or honest you are seen as less trustworthy so people stop trusting you.

When you try to please everyone at some point you will fail, it´s impossible to please everyone, we can´t make every single person around us like us, once you understand this it will be easier to accept yourself and be you.

In most cases people respect others when they´re being true, when they are congruent and when they are confident, this doesn´t mean that everyone will like you but by being yourself you´ll find the ones who like you and love you for who you are, you win trust and respect from them and you feel a lot more free.

People how are overweight or obese deal with this a lot but it can happen to any, if you are dealing with this the first thing you need to do is stop looking for approval and attention, stop pleasing everyone and make a commitment to work on yourself, take care of yourself first and start making some changes to your lifestyle to help you increase your confidence and self-esteem and lower your insecurities.

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How relationships increase stress

16 How relationships increase stress

All of us need to deal at some points in our lives with toxic people, people that make us feel bad, people who spend most of their time blaming others for their circumstances, criticizing and complaining. If we don´t know how to control our emotions this people will increase our stress.

Socializing with people that affect you emotionally in a negative way have a negative impact on our health, if we are worried and we need to think about what to say to the guy who are talking with because if we say the wrong things the other person will create a whole conflict that could end

We all need other people in our lives, everything is based on relationships, we may need them as a mentor, as clients, team members, they may be our coworkers, teachers, bosses or classmates so we need to understand people and know how to deal with them so that when we know that someone is negative or toxic we know how to handle it the right way so that it doesn´t affect us.

How many times have you fought with someone when it was just a misunderstanding? that fight could have been avoided, how many times have you avoided someone because he or she criticized you, made fun of you or bullied you? this can have very negative impacts in some cases leading to depression, anxiety and even suicide.

How many times when you were stressed or anxious you over eat, binge and take food as your way out because you didn´t have someone you can count on, someone you trust enough to talk too?

We all need to feel safe in the environment we´re at, if it´s at school we need to feel safe, we need to know that the people around (classmates and teachers) are there to support us, to help us grow and to lead our path. If it´s at word we need to feel safe, we need to feel that our job matters, that we´re making a difference.

If at school we´re worrying about what others are going to say of us, trying to go unnoticed so no one make fun of us, if at work we spend most of the time worried of being fired and we know that the boss is more interested on the numbers than on the people this will increase our stress. When we´re living with moments like this every day our body is in a constant alert phase.

We also need to have someone we can count on on those though moments of life, we need to have someone we can talk to, saying what we feel and what we think to others knowing that they won´t judge us in any way relief stress from our body.

When talking about goals there are some steps we can all take to avoid misunderstandings and fights that can lead to bigger problems:

1.- If you know that someone is not going to support you with your goal do not tell them.

2.- When someone tell you that you won´t achieve your goal for any reason, do not take their comments personal.

3.- If you know someone who spends most of their time blaming, criticizing and complaining avoid them.

4.- Whenever you are in  a social environment positive or negative try to understand people, try to figure out why they think the way they think and why they react the way they do.

In most cases what people say to you and how they react is the result of what they´ve lived, it doesn´t mean that you are wrong, is a reflection of themselves so the best thing to do is to not get emotionally attached to the comments and do not take them personal, when you are able to do this the negative comments won´t affect you as much.

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How breathing can help us lower stress

15 Breathing technique to reduce stress

Nowadays we´re living in a fast paced world, we can have a lot of things just by come clicks from our cell phone or computer, we change the channel in the tv with a control remote without the need to stand up and we can actually have control of our house with a control remote or with an app on our smart phone.

We are running all day to arrive on time to work or school, to finish all the projects, we have meals on the go, we don´t have good quality sleep and with all this going on we need to stop for a moment and take some time for ourselves.

Breathing is a tool that can give us amazing benefits instantly, breathing cleans and balance our entire body, it releases tensions from our body and muscles and takes us to a calm and relax state. Here are some benefits of breathing:

1.- Cleans our body.- When we breathe deeply all systems of our body get in balance and start working properly and it helps our body get rid of toxins that are causing problems.

2.- Oxygen improves.- Breathing deeply relax our body and this helps oxygen moves through every cell of our body including our brain.

3.- Your mood improves.- Breathing techniques releases endorphins that make us feel good so we feel more positive.

4.- Release tension.- It helps release tension from our muscles.

5.- Improves our systems.- When we´re breathing deeply oxygen flows throughout our body which enriches all cells and help the entire systems absorb nutrients.

6.- Improves focus and concentration.- Since oxygen flows a lot better throughout or body our brains also gets more oxygen and that improves your concentration and focus.

We all need to find tools that help us reduce stress and makes those tools a daily ritual or habit and breathing must be one of those tools. Breathing is everything it can help you turn the most stressful situation and the most negative feelings into a calm state of body and mind and help you let go of all the negativity turning it into positive.

Taking some time each day it could be in the morning or at night to breathe helps us get better sleep and have a better day plus all the positive effects we get in the long run are worth it. You don´t need to be an expert you can start by lying in the floor, close your eyes and take a deep breath, then slowly letting air in and out and focus on those long breathes, there are so many amazing breathing techniques you can find so as always if you´ll need to find the one that is right for you, the one you feel more comfortable doing.

We can see the benefits of this instantly but you need to do any breathing exercise for at least 5 minutes, your body needs time to release tension and your mind also needs time to change focus from all thoughts and worry of your life to the breathing exercise.

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Stress and mental health

14 Stress and mental health

For all of us stress has become part of our lives, we think that those high levels of stress are normal and that´s how we´re supposed to love. This is completely false, chronic stress has been increasing throughout the years and even when short periods of stress are healthy our body gets to a point where it can´t manage stress anymore and most of us are in that point.

Stress is a big problem in mental health, it is more than enough the fact that we spend most of our time worrying about finances and how are we going to make through the next paycheck and how are we going to pay the bills and all the work we still have whether it´s for school or our job and we´re going to arrive late to school, the office or back home because of the traffic.

We have a huge problem if we talk about minorities, those who for any reason are bullied get a tougher time, if your classmates or coworkers make fun of you, of the teachers instead of helping and listening to you blame you for not being “smart enough” according to them, if your boss criticize your work and is disrespectful all this have a negative impact on your emotional health.

There are some people that don´t matter what they here or what they´ve been told all those words and comments do not affect them, it´s so easy for them to ignore and not give importance to comments that can affects them in a negative way but not all of us are able to do this, it´s actually the contrary most of us are really interested and paying attention to what others think and say of us, any comment can affects us negatively and the ones from our boss, coworkers, teachers or classmates if they´re too often can make us feel like failure, like we´re not worthy, like we don´t deserve anything good and that no one cares and when this believes combine with other situations they lead to mental problems like depression and anxiety.

Social media also increases stress and can lead to depression and anxiety, we´re all looking for attention and some of us post pictures or videos on any social media and if we don´t see the likes coming we feel like we´re not good enough or something´s wrong with us. Do not try to please everyone, we are all unique so share your uniqueness with the world.

This is why we need to pay attention and be careful to what we say and what we say to everyone around us, even the smallest reaction or answer can have a positive or negative impact in someone, everyone of us is dealing with their own problems and it cost us nothing to be kind with everyone around us, one positive word can completely change the life or someone.

Some symptoms of depression are fatigue, sleep problems whether they sleep too much or not enough, their appetite change, feelings of worthlessness, they can´t concentrate and make decisions, they don´t finish projects, activities that they loved now seem to be uninteresting, feelings of self-hate, guilt, miserable.

Some symptoms of anxiety are biting their fingernails, tapping their feet, sweaty palms, lack of patience.

In some cases it is easy to identify some of this symptoms and even be able to recognize which event triggered them, we´ve all been through this and how we cope with it is key be able to control it but if the problem is huge we need to talk to someone, this is when having good meaningful relationships are essential, having someone in who we can count on and someone we trust is key.

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Signs of stress on your body

Signs of stress on your body

I like to spend some time watching people when I´m out in the mall, at a restaurant or any other public space, I also like to listen to people close to me, I´m interested in them as much as I´m interested in you. What I see is that most of us are dealing with too much stress in our lives, we have some symptoms but we don´t know they are related to chronic stress.

Here are some of the signs you need to be aware of:

1.- Acne.- This is a big one for me, when I was in school and in one of my jobs I was really stressed out for almost everything, all the amount of work and projects, meetings, the teachers, the boss, the classmates and coworkers.

2.- Sleep problems.- When you are dealing with any situation that is so stressful you´ll find it harder to fall asleep, the quality of sleep will be bad and you don´t get enough sleep.

3.- Headaches.- High levels of stress can cause headaches, migraines and pain in the neck and shoulders.

4.- Mental issues.- Depression and anxiety are related to stressful situations, even when mental problems can be triggered by many factors, people who are dealing with them can get worse with stress.

5.- Muscle tension.- Have you ever felt your body and muscles so tense and the next day you feel like all your body hurts, this is caused by stress.

6.- Digestive issues.- In some of us when we´re under stress and time after it we can have some digestive issue like constipation, feeling bloated or diarrhea.

7.- Changes in mood.- Feeling angry, easily irritated, frustrated, overwhelmed are emotional signs of stress.

This are some of the most common signs of symptoms of stress in our body and most of us do not know and we do not pay attention to our body. When you become aware of this you can take action immediately and I´m not talking about taking an aspirin, I´m talking about taking some time for yourselves, even a few minutes to breathe and meditate can have a positive effect and lower the symptoms.

Being aware means that we need to pay attention and listen to our body and try to find out what causes a certain problem so that we can avoid it in the future. It takes time to learn to be aware and to listen to your body, we´re always focused on what´s happening outside of us and we rarely focus on how we feel inside until something´s wrong.

Also most of the times we treat the symptoms and not the cause, we´ve been used to this and whit this system we´re only lowering or eliminating the symptom which can gives us some relief for a short period of time but in the long run things just get worst causing more damage to our body.

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How exercise helps lower stress

How exercise helps lower stress

We all feel stress at some points in our lives, it´s normal what makes the difference is for how long you are under stress, our body can handle stress for short periods of time and it´s actually beneficial but when it´s constant like chronic stress which is how we live nowadays the consequences are terrible.

Each of us handle the effects of stress in different ways, some of those ways can be healthy and some of them are unhealthy, some people choose Tv, social media, alcohol, smoke or comfort food which are really bad options, one healthy option that improves stress a lot is physical activity.

Is not new that exercise and physical activity reduces stress, it´s actually the best tool you can use to lower the stress from your day, working out is great for our body, heart and mind and to give you a fast respond to why it is amazing is because it release endorphins that make you feel good.

I know that there are some of you who don´t like to workout and may thinking that is are all lies, here´s what happens. When you start doing exercise after a long period of time without any physical activity it will be hard and it is harder if you don´t like what you are doing. You are out of shape and exercise feel so hard and you need to put a lot of effort to finish the workouts but with time you get in better shape, the exercise don´t feel as hard and your self-confidence increases which makes everything easier.

The goal is to develop the habit of working out at least 30 minutes a day and do some activity you like doing, once you find that activity and develop the habit you´ll see how great you feel after your workout.

Here is a simple explanation of how exercise reduces stress. Stress increases hormones like cortisol and adrenaline, this hormones keep you in a fight or flight state this is why you feel your heart rate up, you are ready in case you need to run. Exercise reduces those 2 hormones and releases endorphins that make you feel good this is why you feel so positive and optimistic after your workouts.

The benefits of exercise for lowering stress are short term, right after a workout you feel great and even during your workout you feel motivated and excited, you´ll see a more positive attitude and you´ll find yourself in a more positive mood but you want his to be part of your life so you need to be consistent and do some type of physical activity every day.

If your only goals with exercise is to reduce stress cardio training or aerobic exercises are the way to go, even taking a walk in the park can help a lot, bicycle, jump rope, swimming are also great options, kickboxing and boxing have become popular the benefits are amazing. The key is to find the activity that you love or at least like and the one you can have fun with.

If you are looking for a type of exercise that can help you reduce tensions in the muscles and that can calm your mind yoga is great, you need to be really present and focus on what you are doing on each exercise, the breathing techniques help you clear your mind and the exercises help you reduce tension and stress, all this combination makes it a great way to lower stress and focus on the present moment.

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How stress an diseases are related

stress and diseases

Our lifestyles are the cause of many health problems nowadays, physical and mental and stress is the one causing more damage to us. High levels of stress raise cortisol and it blocks functions in our body this is the reason why we get sick, we can see it when we live very stressful situations, at that moment we feel anxious, we feel our heart rate up and when it´s over it only takes some time for any disease to appear.

This are some diseases highly related to stress:

1.- Headaches.- Most headaches are caused by stress, have you ever stop stopped for a moment to think what caused that headache, a couple of hours before you lived a highly stressful situation or you may have a lot of things to do or you have a problem that you need to solve right now and suddenly the headache appears.

2.- Obesity.- Stress cause cortisol to raise and this causes our body to store fat specially in the belly.

3.- Diabetes.- One of the causes of diabetes is insulin which in most cases is triggered by unhealthy diets but when people with insulin problems and diabetes have high levels of stress their glucose levels raise which causes more problems.

4.- Mental problems.- Depression and anxiety are connected to chronic stress which can come from school or our jobs, how people treat us and how we respond can worsen the problem.

5.- Lack of sleep.- Insomnia, taking too much fall asleep, waking up in the middle of the night, not getting enough sleep they can all be caused by stress. If we have so many worries in our lives our body is tense and our mind is creating all kind of negative thoughts.

6.- Pain in the body.- If you ever had back or beck pain and you don´t know why it may be stress the one who caused it, tensions and stress increase inflammation and if you spend most time of your day sitting in the same position it limits your movements.

This are 6 of the most common and short term diseases that we all have suffered, this is where all begins and sadly it all can get worse including heart diseases, strokes, shorter lifespan.

We need to reduce stress in our lives and one of the ways to do it is by avoiding stressful environments the problem is that when those environments are places like school or your job is not that easy to avoid them, what we need to do in this case is find ways to manage and reduce that stress so that is doesn´t affect us that much and learn how to respond in some situation will be of help.

Lowering and managing stress is one of the hardest things to do but once you know how to do it you will have more control in any situations over your reactions and emotions.

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Meditation as a tool to reduce stress

10 Meditation as a tool to reduce stress

Sit straight and take a deep breath…, focus on your breath…, breathe in…, breathe out…, breathe deeply and slowly.

You may have heard or read a lot of meditation exercises as the one I mentioned, it can be just plain as simple as just breathing deeply and slowly which are actually focused on breathing techniques to calm your mind or they can get a lot more complex. Meditation is a tool to help you manage stress, specially chronic stress which is the negative one and have a lot of negative effects for your health.

There´s no way to avoid stress, it´s something normal and common that occur to all of us, while acute stress can be helpful and in some cases necessary chronic stress has negative consequences in our lives which we are seeing a lot more nowadays. Knowing how to manage stress how you can lower it down when you are in tough situations help you react better and make better choices.

We all talk about health and fitness and we workout every day or at least 5 days to stay healthy and while this is a great way to keep our body healthy we also need to train our mind and make sure it stay focused on what we want and avoid all negative thoughts, the way you can train your mind is with meditation.

Meditation has a lot of benefits for your health, physical and mental. It reduces tension, anxiety, worry, fear and thanks to this it helps you lower stress. It also helps you reduce and eliminate negative thoughts and emotions, focus on the present moment so that you can enjoy more every single moment you spend with friends and family, it keeps you calm and patience helping you think and have more control over stressful situations.

If you think about the mind-body connection and how being harmony is key to creating the life you want to live you´ll agree with me that you need to know how to keep everything working together and in harmony. Meditation is one of the ways to do it.

It has been practice for thousands of years in almost all countries and religions knowing that our thoughts play a really important part of the life we´re living. The fast pace times we´re living right now and considering that most of us spend most of our lives with chronic stress meditation is the best tool you can use to lower stress, stay calm and focused on positive things.

Negative thoughts keep our mind focused on the worst things that could happen to us in any situation so one way you can use meditation to lower stress is by eliminating negative thoughts and replacing them with positive ones.

One of the reasons why it has become a go-to for many people is because you need nothing to do it and it can be done anywhere. If you don´t like to do it laying down or sitting in some Yoga positions you can do it by taking a walk. You can schedule 10 minutes of your day to meditate or you can do it whenever you are in a difficult situation, all it takes is a couple of minutes to lower your heart beat, reduce tension and stay calm and relax.

Taking everything personal and giving more attention and priority to things that are not that important also increases stress, we spend too much time focusing our attention in things we can´t do anything about and things that are not that important. Meditation helps you focus your energy and attention on things that do matter while taking all the other stuff out of the way, when this happens you are able to think better and get better results and what´s more important for you without over thinking and staying in a more positive attitude.

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How reducing social media can help you reduce stress

09 How reducing social media can reduce stress

Even when I consider social media to be a great tool to connect with people all around the world it can be the biggest distraction for some of us.

Social media has become like a drug and the way it mess with your brain cause mental problems, it has become the biggest distraction and is highly related to stress.

How much time of your day do you spend on social media? You may go to Facebook to say happy birthday to a friend or family and you stay glued to the news feed when you realized one hour has passed. They are a big distraction and the biggest reason why you can´t get things done.

Social media is a great way to stay connect with people all around the world and it´s an amazing tool to share ideas the problem comes when it is overused which is what happens nowadays. We spend so much time on social media that we forget to give the attention needed to the people around us.

Relationships are highly important in our lives and they have changed completely with social media. It has become our way to deal with stress, every time we feel down, sad, depressed, anxious we take our phone and share a picture of us with filter to get likes because getting likes and comments make us feel good but if we don´t receive the many likes or comments in the next few seconds we start to freak out thinking nobody likes us, we´re not cool enough, there´s something wrong with us.

The reason we share pictures or videos in social media is to gain attention, we´re all looking for attention and to feel accepted, so the moment we share something and we don´t get the attention we were looking for we get anxious. We start looking for reasons why we didn´t get the attention so we compare ourselves with other accounts which make us feel like we are not good enough. This creates a lot of pressure and stress by trying to please everyone else and not being yourself. Here we need to understand that we can´t compare ourselves with anyone else because they´ve not been through what we´ve been through and also realize that many post on social media are photoshopped or use filters so they are not sharing with us their reality.

Companies and even guys all over any social media show you what they want you to see, not their reality so you think that their lives are amazing which in most cases is not true. So you start feeling worthless, that feeling of not being worth enough and not deserving everything you want in life cause anxiety and depression so if you are dealing with real problems in your life and you turn to social media to get attention it will only make the problem worse.

Also most of us use social media to share our thoughts about certain product, service, company, politics and specially to criticize, blame or talk bad about something that went wrong in our day. This creates and endless stream of stress. As you go through your feed you´ll see that a lot of the information is negative, negative news and negative information sell more because it creates fear. People tend to talk about negative stuff more than about positive stuff but seeing all this negative things keep you on a negative state of mind which brings negativity to your life.

Social media is connecting us with people far from us but it´s disconnecting us from the ones in front of us. There´s nothing wrong with social media if you use it the right way and if you have control.

Now, what you can do is very simple, reduce the time you spend in social media the way you can do this is by giving you tasks with time frames, if you have an important task to do set a goal for yourself to not get into any social media until you finish it or if it´s too long then don´t use social media for one hour. When you start any activity, the more time you can remain focused on it the better results you will get and the faster you´ll get it done, depending on the activity you may need to take a couple of minutes of rests, it can be around every 60 or 90 minutes of work and focus and take 5 to 15 minutes of rest or small distractions you can control.

The best option and what works great for many people is to set specific hours of the day for social media and don´t take more than 10 minutes in all of them, you can take 30 minutes of your day and divide those into 10 minutes in the morning and 20 at night or 10 in the morning, 10 at lunch and 10 at dinner.

When you reduce time on social media you have more time to actually focus on your day, your activities and live your life without paying too much attention to what others are doing. Don´t try to please everyone else just be you and don´t compare yourself to anyone else, we all have our own stories so make your story the best it can be.

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